06/27/2008

Positive Thinking builds Our Style

We should always have a positive thinking in my live; this is the key to control your feeling. As an imagination of positive thinking, there are two children involved in talking about this one:

           “Are you always lazy when wake up in early morning, Tini?, I am always sleep again when mother rousing me. I feel lazy and still sleepy.”

            Tini response those question, “I directly wake up, because every day is always fun.”

            Tina confused of that response and asks again, “but we still don’t if the day will happy or sad?”

            “No every day is always happy, mother always cook for me a good taste food, so I have inquiring feeling what the kind of food for to day.”

There are many ways and example to motivate us on getting positive thinking, habit, hobby, activity and many simple examples for this. Life style is a choice. We can choose a good or bad way, every day we go to work; there are many ways to reach the workplace. Positive or negative thinking are also our choice from many alternative of life.

So don’t blame to others if we have choose for something, good or bad day we must accept of the consequences of our choice. On getting positive thinking we begin from simple thing. Many small matters in our environment should feel grateful, such as can breath a fresh air in the morning, break fast eating, and the fresh of water when we take a bath, and many others.

06/11/2008

Indonesian Syle

Indonesian is consist of thousand Island, the big island like Sumatra, Java, Kalimantan or Borneo, Sulawesi, Bali, Nusa Tenggara, Maluku, and Papua. Most of among island have many culture and traditional style to appreciate people. But generally all of them have similar style with eastern culture.

Eastern culture include of Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore, Philippine, Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar, Japanese and some other country near of them have eastern culture. The big differences between eastern and western is in eastern very appraise to the eastern value. Eastern people will very ashamed if their family have a bad behavior, uncle, aunt, grand father, grandma will suppress her/his child to change their behavior.

Eastern value also very appraise to the older people, every body will ask for older permission if want do something that may make them offended. This is way some old management system in the company still live, Seniority System, who is the first, is the best and will get a first chance. But this is not absolutely like this, sometimes also still give to a good perform people, but if I percentage for this still below 30 % take from those system.

Eastern people also well-known with permissive people, smiling people or other symbolic attribute that means nothing from truth. Smile sometimes means hate to certain people, although he still smile when he meet with. Many people do something that can not be apologize because of they have done like corruption, but after he apologize with tears in his cheek, people than feel pity or compassion and neglected for his mistake. This is whey many corruption in Indonesian Bureaucracy.

06/05/2008

Life Style

Old life styles are traditional life style, they all are appreciated on the traditional culture. Traditional culture have accumulate a good ways on their life experiences, but sometimes modern people have rejected without any qualified explanation. Traditional life style have many a good advice for you how to live in this earth, but many of us don't want to learn it, we are the young generation tend to avoid this tradition. Even we don't to filter first but reject all. Is this right way? No, this is not right. This is mean that you don't respect them at all. We must respect to each others, to get the same attention.

Modern life style sometimes is affected by actress trend, not just our daughter or boy that follow this style, other actress also imitate of actress. The effect is sometimes bad like apply body piercing on her body, tattoo that can destroy the body.

Ok just enough from me, you can add by your comment...:))

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